I took a break from the DR book and am reading "The Solo Partner". I haven't worked thru all the worksheets, but part of it was making a list of things to change about yourself. The book says to enlist friends and family in this process, because what you hear from your spouse may or may not be valid.

So do some fact finding and don't just take his word on it!

PS Thank goodness for the wonderful people on this site. I gain so much from reading about our different journeys!

Wendy

Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32
D final 9/12
Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!