Step away from the fire! But, not the wine. LoL

Why would you devote that kind of attention and effort towards a lunar of qualitites/actions based on your H's thoughts???

Isn't this the same man accusing you of flirting? The same man who is more pissy than not?

If you want to make a list... Think of things that make you happy, productive, content, energized... And act on them!

Let him worry about how HE is affecting you! He's the one being a sporadic ass.

How's the wine?