Ajay- What are you doing to GAL? Any activities? Any hobbies? You seem very focused on W and I know its hard not too as I've been there. Time will help but in the meantime can you start an exercise regimen, even small (walking w/ music), get together w/ family or friends, volunteer anywhere? Try to find at least one activity you can do 1/week and build from there. You may have to force yourself at first but trust that it will help you detach from your w.
Well I got the paperwork today and yes, cleaners is a good term. One part is "spousal support". Even though there are no children, I have to pay her the difference between what she earns and what she needs to live on. Even though SHE left ME. I can be forced to sell the house and all other assetts. She also has a claim on my pension. I am staggered at all this, it will bankrupt me. Only two days ago, she was telling me that she still wanted to be friends. What the hell is all that about?
She has certainly turned out to be a gold digger, which hurts even more. It wasn't me she loved, but the lifestyle.
