She has dropped some pretty hard punches on me - "IT'S OVER! I'M DONE! AND THERE IS NOTHING THAT YOU CAN DO OR SAY TO MAKE ME CHANGE MY MIND!"
Crimson, there is chance that while she may have been saying this to you and even looking at you when she said it, she may have been saying to herself, as an act of self-convincing. IOW, she has to constantly remind herself of what what she's doing and why. Man, I have heard different variations of this SO many times over the last 10 months. It's pretty scary sometimes how convincing it can be. Don't drink the Kool-Aid.
I think you're in a one day at a time mode right now. Maybe in 3 weeks you can start looking for small positives, but you may not get much more than that. Take advantage of this time to GAL and work on yourself. If you don't notice any changes, re-evaluate at that time. There are plenty of folks here to help you navigate that. You don't have to know your strategy 3 weeks out right now.
