Btw,... I'm rather surprised that there hasn't been violence myself. I actually don't vilify her H. I'm not inclined to believe everything she's claimed was done to her by her H. Some of the things she says he did to her,... would have had him thrown in jail, no questions asked.
That the kind of stuff gets told to me by my H. I haven't spoken about any of that here, because there is no proof for it. Strangely, people who know him, say he's a stand up guy who loves OW, but is now sick of the lies, and deception. He's there for those kids day in and day out. He works shift and is there for them more than dear old mom is.
cheers Abbey
T:22, M:20 H:55 Me:45 H-OW PA: N/07 OW Jan08 Bomb:Feb/08 S: Apr/08 Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11 Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess. Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.