Doing the "Friends" Route Pt 2...

[Abbey]

Actually Kml, I knew her BEFORE my husband got involved with her. My interaction with her lasted 2 years prior to the A. Because of the interactions and the nature of them... I'll just say that what we actually know about her, IS enough to get a good shot at custody.

What I'm not saying is what my H accuses her H of. Only have HER word for what she claims about that.

As for the rest, I was privy to the phone calls, the psycho behavior left on his phone, his voice mail, his email, texts, etc etc etc. As was I privy to what people very close to the sitch witnessed themselves. There is NO reason to lie. Matter of fact, when I was told a lot of the stuff I know... the people who spoke about it,... did NOT know I was my H's wife. (Kinda hard to explain why without perhaps having someone figure out who I am on here from my home town)... suffice to say... this wasn't the stuff she did to her kids... this was stuff she did or said to my H in front of others. This is stuff that is concrete and provable, not heresay. (A hole in the wall where she threw an item AT my husband is just a start, for example).

To clarify, The plastic stick incident was part in parcel of what was documented and reported to the children services.

Also, I'm not in the US. Not all laws, esp family law works the same as in the states. Auto joint custody is the norm, UNLESS there is issue for concern. There IS issue for concern.

The lawyer issue is closer than ever. As you well know though, if it's "my" idea, it will fall flat in the future. This has to be his idea.

cheers
Abbey