Well i was just informed yeasterday that we are having an emergency meeting at work and they are switching our health insurance. I informed W that since this is a window for me, I would be dropping her for insurance and just insuring D and myself.

She responded that I "was required to keep the insurance until the divorce is final" and that her work will not offer her insurance until February. Keep in mind when I required her to pay her half of the cell phone bill earlier, she got another phone with OM and left me to cancel the phone and pay for the cancellation charges. So I am thinking I don't want to make that mistake again and be forced to pay for her insurance for longer than I have to, only to have the opportunity to mess with me again.

There has been nothing legal written and no lawyers involved.

I want to drop her so I can afford to save up for a lawyer in case I need one.

I think she trying to cake eat with this issue but wanted opinions.


M:35
W:33
M: 5 yrs.
Daughter: 2 yr .7/11/10
D Final: 8/7/12