Wife just told me doesn't want to be married

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How do you handle friends bad mouthing your W. I realize that pending on whom I am around I make some comments as well and need to stop or do I. She is the one with the OM and I was the one that was mildly depressed the past couple of years since my daughter was born. Made this realization within the past week. Will be addressing this tonight at therapy. Now don't get me wrong I love my little girl and would do anything for either of my kids. When she was born money was tight and I looked at her like she had a price tag on her head. Felt bad then and still do in a way.