That is a really hard one to answer. It could swing either way. I wish my W would ask me that question, but I don't even know what I would say in that situation. I guess something like "I am working on becoming the best father and best person I can be. I can only hope that someday I can show you that man I am now."
M 33 W 29 S 4 M 5 T 7 11/7/11 Separation, W moves in with parents 12/1/11 W: "IDLY, I'm not coming back, it's over" 1/7/12 D Bomb Dropped
