The whole codependent idea is something that I have a love/hate relationship with.

I'm not sure I buy into the concept hook line and sinker. YET, I do comprehend how the interpersonal relationship aspect feeds off of others, and needs others to fuel our own insecurities etc.

So much reading to do. So little time. Practically every one of us could be T's ourselves once we get through this. I've thought about it a time or two. smile

Thanks for the vote of confidence Nb and Mz, it is survival, and it's something that after the last time, makes me more determined than ever to not let myself become so depressed that I simply shut down.

It's weird, the couple I spoke about in another post. Their troubles actually shock me more than my own. Weird.

Abbey smile


T:22, M:20
H:55 Me:45
H-OW PA: N/07
OW Jan08
Bomb:Feb/08
S: Apr/08
Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11
Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess.
Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.