Abbey, I think it is very positive your H is willing to talk to you about his issues with the OW. I don't hear anything from "the other bubble" and I think that's a huge issue in breaking through the fog.
Stay strong and GAL away...you are in a tough situation but I like your attitude!
I know it was the last time too. That's why I'm staying with my feet in the puddle. As always the risk is... he can go the other way ... and that's when you have to be ready to walk/pull the plug. It does serve as a gauge though, as to where he's "at". Esp, since I've seen the same path before.
It would be easier to be away, because I do think it would fast forward the thing... (esp since the model of home I like just came on the market today).. but anyway, I"ll cross that bridge when I get there.
Mean time, I know he'll come home, griping, then he'll defend her about something her old boss is doing to her. Round it goes.
T:22, M:20 H:55 Me:45 H-OW PA: N/07 OW Jan08 Bomb:Feb/08 S: Apr/08 Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11 Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess. Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.
