That is fantastic!! It makes perfect sense yet I needed to see it in type. I definitely agree that demeanor is huge, and just like on the other side it is actions and not just words. Thank you for sharing that!!
I've really been trying to see it for what it is, but a piece of me was still holding out for his miraculous wake up. I don't know why that would happen, and it won't happen. There is no reason for it to happen.
I've always been a peacemaker, and especially for my kids, I really want things to be nice and pretty (codependent)
That is obviously not healthy for any of us, I can see that.
My 180 for today is reminding myself repeatedly that I am worth it, I deserve happiness (whether with my H or not) and we are only given one life and I need to LIVE it.
I've been so worried about walking on eggshells and making sure not to upset him, that I am exhausted. The reality is, I can't control his reaction, and if I don't hear his temper tantrums, I won't have to diffuse them
I have GAL activities planned for the next 3 days, and looking forward to them.
