Abbey,
I think it is very positive your H is willing to talk to you about his issues with the OW. I don't hear anything from "the other bubble" and I think that's a huge issue in breaking through the fog.

Stay strong and GAL away...you are in a tough situation but I like your attitude!


M 44, H 46
D11, D9, D5
Married 12 years
PA confirmed 9/2011
I filed 3/2012
H moved out 7/2012