Indecision and the affair continues (Part 2)

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Agree...one of my friends had an A and she was a wreck for about three weeks when she ended it. I've heard you want to see that grief/mourning though too so that hopefully it's really ending or over. We'll see if I get to that point.

My H has consistently said he hasn't been sure about OW. He believes things could be great between them based on what he had seen so far, but he's consistently asked for time to figure things out. My hope is that given I found out about the A about 6 weeks into it...maybe they aren't quite as committed to each other as some As? Who knows. Obviously there's a big enough connection to risk our entire marriage over it.

Time will tell...I do think it's good for me to have some hope to inspire me to keep up the DB-ing. I also don't think H is really acting like a man who thinks he's going to be separated/heading towards a D.