Thanks Abbey. Yeah, and his trip this weekend with OW is a big factor. Is he more worried than usual about keeping the fire with me warm? He seems to want both options to remain open.
He's loosely said he'll read something or get counseling before...so I am not getting my hopes up too high. Honestly, I hope he talks to our counselor over reading a book.
I intend to remain busy here and quiet. Let him think about his actions and hopefully OW senses something this weekend. It'd be great timing for that to blow up around now.
M 44, H 46 D11, D9, D5 Married 12 years PA confirmed 9/2011 I filed 3/2012 H moved out 7/2012