H texted me a few times as he got on the plane. I texted back and told him I appreciated him finding the Christmas ornaments. He said he had fun, the kids were mostly good, they are cute, and then he said, "Sorry about everything we are going through. I am going to read your book".

I didn't see the texts until this morning. I responded and said, "Okay. I think you may also want to talk to our MC." H is referring to either the Shirley Glass book "Not Just Friends" or the book "When Good People Have Affairs". I haven't pushed any books on him, but I told him I had read a few books on affairs and I thought it was helpful. (I am NOT tell him about Divorce Busting...)

H called this morning to tell me he did really well in his first meeting of the day (after his red eye flight...he is insane) One of the top people at the company he works for noted his project and stood up to shake H's hand for doing an outstanding job.

More baby steps? He's gone now for a week so I think I play it cool. It seems like the combo of DB and the holidays may be getting to him a bit.


M 44, H 46
D11, D9, D5
Married 12 years
PA confirmed 9/2011
I filed 3/2012
H moved out 7/2012