I need advice for dealing with a WAW

[Accuray]

I agree, although you haven't been talking to her directly, I'm sure she knows that you've been talking to your in-laws about her. That lets her know you're still there and still pursuing her -- it's kind of "pursuit by proxy". That's not to say that what you've been doing has been wrong -- only that it hasn't been working so time to try something new.

Given that she hasn't reached out to you at all in seven weeks, I think all you can do is give her even more space -- I think your plan is the right one for now. It's December 7th. Why don't you put a date on your calendar for January 20th and focus on that. Don't reach out before 1/20. If your in-laws call, be polite and listen to what they have to say, but don't ask questions that might get passed along. Only talk about you and what you're doing for yourself.

Once January 20th arrives, you can either continue to stay dark, or you can pursue the advice of your MC's and reach out to her directly, or you can re-engage with your inlaws -- the point is to give *this* strategy time to work.

Good luck!

Accuray