Morning Gunny. My IC says the same that I should talk things out and discuss the D and the process. But every time I tried it it back fired. So your IC is incorrect. Why would your WAW want to come back to a weak destroyed man? Besides she already knows how you feel if you do that she will push away again. Keep doing what it is working. Take it from me who is a C. Most of us are not trained in family couples therapy. Yes we do get the general training but usually is post graduate studies that does it and it is very intensive training. I know it is hard I backslide last week and got me no where. Hang in there buddy.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
