TIMES THAT TRY MENS SOULS

[gunny]

hello 2,
As always, your points are well taken. I had actually thought about how much better finding employment will make my w feel about herself, since self esteem issues on her part figured prominently in our difficulties. So, yes, I think there is a possibility that this may be a positive thing.

The issue of whether I would or could relocate is not a huge issue in and of itself. I work in county government,(almost 20 years in) so I do have a couple of decent pensions that are
already vested. I also have a Marine Corps Pension. I am healthy and work in the Veterans Services Field, so I should always be able to find a decent job anywhere I go. In addition, Ive always liked Ohio, and I have close relatives nearby in Kentucky. So, would I relocate? If she asked me, if she worked on her issues like I am working on mine, and if she truly wanted to wrok at the marriage, I would think very seriously about making the move. I am SEMPER GUMBY, always flexible!

Thanks for the post 2, I will check your s out soon.