Hello AC, Thanks for your kind words. 4 Months, wow, I am on 7 weeks. I remember reading one of your posts where your w was gone 7 weeks, and you were saying that at the 7 week mark it was actually getting a little harder. Ive had other people I know who have gone through this who told me that at around 3 months things start to ease up, but having the holidays coming up can definately exert an artificial strain on the healing process.
I think one of the things that may have made things a little tougher for you was that your w came back for a visit, which may have put you in reset mode.
AC, as always, I admire your philosphy, I still say it will be greatly appreciated by your s no matter what the outcome of your sitch.
Would you ever consider relocating if she wanted to work things out?
m 54 XW 48 m 12 t 14 bomb 6-11 s 10-11 wife moved to other state 10-21-11 d 9-12
O GOD THY SEA IS SO GREAT AND MY BOAT IS SO SMALL!