Hello AC,
Thanks for your kind words. 4 Months, wow, I am on 7 weeks. I remember reading one of your posts where your w was gone 7 weeks, and you were saying that at the 7 week mark it was actually getting a little harder. Ive had other people I know who have gone through this who told me that at around 3 months things start to ease up, but having the holidays coming up can definately exert an artificial strain on the healing process.

I think one of the things that may have made things a little tougher for you was that your w came back for a visit, which may have put you in reset mode.

AC, as always, I admire your philosphy, I still say it will be greatly appreciated by your s no matter what the outcome of your sitch.

Would you ever consider relocating if she wanted to work things out?


m 54
XW 48
m 12
t 14
bomb 6-11
s 10-11
wife moved to other state 10-21-11
d 9-12

O GOD THY SEA IS SO GREAT AND MY BOAT IS SO SMALL!