TIMES THAT TRY MENS SOULS

[gunny]

Hi Jb,
Thanks for your post. Good points. Yes, she is currently living with her sister not far from the house they grew up in, and where they were both abused by their stepfather(my IC immediately picked up on this as being one of the big reasons for her running away back there, she may need to deal with past ghosts)

The health benefits at this point are really just a connection between us.I would not want them to be the only reason she stayed connected, in fact, i believe that the faster she is able to come off my benefits and go on her own, the better she will feel, because I feel being able to prove to themselves that they can make it on their own is part of the reason WAWS leave. Since many times they feel they have lost themselves in the marriage, they can now assert their independence.

How are things with you JB, my w said the temps are supposed to plummet out there soon!