One minute at a time. The hard part is that this crap hardens your heart. When you're away from it, you can busy yourself with your own life easier than when they're stuck IN your life, spinning their damn wheels.

Yes, I think they do feel bad. I think they don't have the capacity to deal with it.

It's hard to find info on the affair/fog lifting I think because men aren't as forthcoming with emotions. They seem to want it to all go away once they realize the damage they have left in their path. It's a big mountain to climb, in their minds. One that makes them fearful.

The job we have as the LBS, is to make sure they don't take the ski lift up to the top of the mountain... in order for BOTH people to heal,... they have to make the climb and make amends.

Abbey


T:22, M:20
H:55 Me:45
H-OW PA: N/07
OW Jan08
Bomb:Feb/08
S: Apr/08
Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11
Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess.
Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.