He IS missing you. Mine used to call at 1 am. Why? Cuz he was lonely. It's a tightrope you walk on this one.

As VC said, the OW isn't gone yet. What I think with men, is very often they can't just be single. Women do that more successfully, in many cases.

Keep him at arm's length, but just keep making it clear:, yes, I'm potentially interested... but the ball is in your court because it is YOU who has work to do... it is YOU who has to tie up your loose ends.

Abbey

T:22, M:20
H:55 Me:45
H-OW PA: N/07
OW Jan08
Bomb:Feb/08
S: Apr/08
Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11
Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess.
Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.