"You know, H, after the roller coaster of the last few weeks w/you, I would tend to agree. I'm just not sure this marriage is salvageable anymore. I'd like to get through the holidays in peace, but after that we need to have a hard discussion regarding allowing space for one another to think."
"H, I can't make your roller coaster OUR roller coaster. I'm beginning to agree w/you regarding not knowing what the future of our marriage should be. I'd appreciate some space to be able to figure this out in my head/heart. Let's get through the holidays, as a family, and then sit down and understand together what our next steps are in healing us, or giving each other more space."
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
