she's made progress with a lot of her phobias and she is getting out of her comfort zone big time.
She's braver than before. When she learns to love herself, she'll also learn to forgive herself and cut herself some slack, realizing she did the best she could at the time with the tools she had, or lacked.
And in time, that realization may lead to being able to see the best in others, through their flaws.
For the most part, our WASs and MLCers do not mean to hurt us. They are lost and confused AND OR
they have made choices to change their lives in ways THEY believe will lead them to happiness. Hard to convince them otherwise with words.
rysmom I DO hope you find a way to let go of your pain and anger, b/c it will free YOU.
Feeling Anger takes a lot of emotional and mental energy,
energy which could instead be spent on creating a new, happier life for you & your son.
IN the meantime, I'm glad you are pushing your own personal envelope and getting OUT more and meeting people.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
