Well I have been slowly working on gathering the horrendous amount of info for my L. I have pretty much moved most of my wifes stuff out to the garage for her to get. My W has thrown every meaningful thing down the drain along with all the relationships of the people that really loved and cared for her. Many people, in-laws, friends, and other think my W is mentally unstable which I agree. She really needs to be seen by a mood disorder expert with someone that can join her to make sure the truth is told. She claims she was cleared by bipolar but who knows what was said or anything else. My W has got so angry in the past she would throw stuff and I mentioned this to my MIL. My MIL told me about when my W threw her recipe book and broke it. There is a pattern of constant anger, ups/downs, and loss of control of emotions. Who knows what it really is but I can't help her anymore. I have really tried my entire M to help her with no success. I'm moving on and will be the best father to my son that I can be. My W will hit rock bottom on day as everyone in my life has commented including her own family and when she does she will probably have no one to help her because she will have burn her bridges with everyone. I'm ready to move on and make 2012 a way better year than this one. I know everyone has their faults and weaknesses but my W's have been impossible to address as she will not address them and I can't do anything about it anymore. I gave all my love to her and worked to make life good for her but nothing was ever good enough. All the retrospection has made me realize how crazy my marriage has really been. Onward and upward for now. Just trying to get the D going so all of us can move on.
Me:29 W:28 S:2 M: 5 years Bomb: 7-26-11 Separated: 8-20-11 EA w/ multiple OMs W filed 1/2012