If anything, enjoy the boost of confidence you are receiving from another woman being interested in you. That's great....

.... and smart that you are recognizing where you are at emotionally and detecting her "pursuing"

If you feel comfortable with what you are receiving that sign the papers. I posted to WLA about how it's really about what you want.

Friends and family will give their thoughts and ideas, but at the end of the day... you need to live with your actions.

As for you w, it's not shocking that she would pressure you about getting a lawyer. It seems she doesn't think you are entitled to anything.

So sorry West. Know that you ARE a good man and YOU DON'T DESERVE THE SH!T SHE IS SERVING YOU!!!

It's her problems.. not you.

M(f): 40
D'ed: 8/12

Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.

Love at all costs because you are loved well.