Honestly, the only thing you can do is step away, stop interacting with him except in case of extreme emergency regarding your child, and pretend he doesn't exist. [/quote
thanks abby... I dont mean to call you out Mish...LOL... but this is why im confused...this is what ive been doing, no contact except extreme emerg. regarding S14 but now you guys say thats not right if you have kids...i would love to have contact with him when I need to regarding S14 but when i do he responds like he doesnt really want to know, if he responds at all...like the other night when i told him about his activity on his fb page...all i got was a "that sounds good"..no questions about what happened or any interest at all.. i feel like the going dark is helping me as well as getting hi to realize that maybe he does want contact with me????? i totally value yours and others input so please help me understand..
Me:48 H:42 M: 18 yrs. S: 9/1/09 due to alcoholic H D bomb: 9/9/11 OW confirmed 10/30/11 D papers filed 11/01/11 S15 S21(Special needs) S28
Look to yourself, It is there that all your answers are found...
