One word. Money. I'm not using all my savings to pay for this house alone. This mess has cost me enough. I'll be very blunt with this. Finances isn't somewhere I need "advice", trust me. The world I work in, the biz I'm in deals with this day in, day out. Short term pain for long term gain. Kicking him out right now, would give him a financial gain.

Honestly, let me ask a simple question: Why should I kick someone out where it's financially more beneficial to ME, to stay? Why too would I kick someone out who I know is still in the early stages of nuttiness,... shouldn't pulling the plug be done when it has the most umph?

Abbey

T:22, M:20
H:55 Me:45
H-OW PA: N/07
OW Jan08
Bomb:Feb/08
S: Apr/08
Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11
Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess.
Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.