I will read it. Funny though that your assessment is so different from those who saw me then, to those who see me know. Night and Day. Water and fire.

My excuses for my H are with the understanding of what happens when certain types of personalities collide. I've done so much research on those types interactions, that it's hard to be vengeful or other negative because I *understand* what can drive the insanity.

Does that mean I'm not taking care of me? Nope. A boundary that needed slam dunking on him was just what the doctor ordered last night. He survived. Still hasn't got his brain on straight, but *shrug*. It establishes my safe zone. Until I have to establish again, and again (which I will). What I know is that I still need to get this shack sold before getting onward. (This price range doesn't sell overnight and 25 years of experience in this field knows that I have to have a patient exit strategy in order to survive this insanity.)

His MLC is all part and parcel of the same crap that happened in 2008. He's in amoured of his child, and is projecting that to the baby mama. It happens.

Me, I still have no idea if I want this after it's said and done.

cheers
Abbey


T:22, M:20
H:55 Me:45
H-OW PA: N/07
OW Jan08
Bomb:Feb/08
S: Apr/08
Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11
Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess.
Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.