The wavering is a good thing. Just let it run it's course. I call that the "spin cycle". That's where I'm at. Go read my latest post in my thread to see what I mean. We're having a great time, he's CLEARLY doing something that would drive the OW off her tree,... then the next moment he asks me a question that should have gotten him punched in the head. They're SOOOO selfish right now that there's nothing you can do but put your seat belt on.

It often comes in bits and fits... sometimes in one big bite, but more often than not, in bits and fits, then something is the straw that breaks the camel's back.

It's also why I say detaching, once you get the hang of it is a god send.

Abbey smile


T:22, M:20
H:55 Me:45
H-OW PA: N/07
OW Jan08
Bomb:Feb/08
S: Apr/08
Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11
Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess.
Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.