How do I gracefully handle this in a DBing fashion? W asked to take baby with her to Iowa to see her family the week after Christmas. Her just asking via text caused my heart to drop a bit and anxiety to set in. It would be the first major trip without me. That is emotionally hard to deal with. I know I can't stop it (well, leagally I could say she can't take him out of state but that would not be a wise move on my part). What is the best way to handle this with a WAW?? I don't even know what to say.
