Okay, I am confused here. All the advice that I have heard from here to go dark. Which I am. But I was reading an article on relationships that this guy wrote and if you have any questions, feel free to contact him. Well his advice to me was to let him know that I am still interested in him and show him.

Wouldn't this just push him farther away?


H: 49
W: 47
D: 6
M: 6 1/2 yrs
H: Bomb #1 6-2010
H: Bomb #2 7-2011
H: Separated: 7-11-11
Reconciling 2-2012
Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)