TG I thought this post was really inspirational in that you really are claiming your right to be treated with love and compassion and value and not "making excuses", as you said, for someone else not putting into a relationship the same effort and feeling that you do. That's a powerful statement and I'm glad to see you doing well and being so assertive about this for yourself.
What strikes me most is that you have so much dignity. I think a lot of us lose our sense of dignity over what happens with the way our marriages end, but you've definitely got your dignity back if you had lost it for a time, and perhaps it's stronger in you than it ever was.
M45 Bomb 6/09; EA 6/10; Divorced 1/11 Proud single mom of 7 little feline girls and one little feline boy "Fall down 53 times. Get up 54." -- Zen saying
