Well, EX texts me yesterday afternoon asking to see the dogs. I was not going to be home and told her she was welcome to come by and see them and I'd leave her a key. She said OK. We texted a little more throughout the day and she seemed a bit distant so I tried not to press too hard. She came by and saw them while I was gone. I was disappointed she didn't say anything about my Christmas Tree or the room I just painted. I know she noticed though and it may have made her sad to see I'm moving on no matter. She was fairly cold yesterday but on some days she's warmer. It seems like she is really trying hard to convince herself that she has it better now than when she was with me. Well, that's b/c she hasn't met the new me! I get discouraged sometimes, but the DB thing seems to be working a bit. If nothing else, we're having civil conversations now rather than yelling at each other. She asked that I text her tonight to remind her to do something for me. I guess that's good news, right?
