Gunny:
Hang in there, my friend. It ain't over till its over. Who knows if the job will work out, who knows how her thoughts will evolve with time...nothing is for certain. Today marks 4 months since my W moved across the country, and, while I am pragmatic enough to recognize the chance of her returning is very, very low....I will keep giving her emotional support until whatever transition she is going through ends up wherever it ends up. You do the same. Stay on the high road, don't lose faith in yourself or who you are. The road is long, and it ain't about to end any time soon. Be strong.


H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012