TIMES THAT TRY MENS SOULS

[gunny]

Hello All,
Just got a call from my w. She was offered a job. She was very excited, and I told her I was very happy for her, that I knew it was important to her, and that it will take alot of pressure off her.

She did not say anything about health insurance benefits, but I'm sure she is going to be covered, and that I will be hearing from her soon about coming off my benefits. Then, there will be no reason for us to stay married, I guess the next step will be to file for D. This is all conjecture, but it probably will happen.

I tried real hard to sound upbeat and exited for her, think I did a pretty good job. But, it is just one more nail in the coffin of her never moving back to Jersey. She is becoming more and more comfortable back in her hometown.

Should I have said anything about benefits? We ended the convo on a very upbeat note.
Any advice, comments? Thank you all, I am feeling a bit down.