Indecision and the affair continues (Part 2)

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Thanks Abbey...I guess that's the biggest struggle. He is in such a selfish place and I can see the bigger picture. I wonder if the selfishness starts to go away gradually, or if they tend to only wake up when something really cracks--like OW freaks out or the W kicks them out of the house?

You are right about detaching...I guess it feels harder when my H is kind of "in and out" of our relationship. (although, I would rather have him wavering than clearly done)