It sounds like you got some preliminary good news from the L. Good for you for going and talking to one.
I'm with Rick - you should give the church a try.
Also, I'm not going to belabor the point, but you're getting some outstanding advice from 25. It would be worthwhile heeding that advice.
One thing to keep in mind is would you rather have your W in the house when she doesn't want to be there or would you rather not have her there. I know you didn't get a vote, but right now it's a cheeseless tunnel lamenting the situation.
As always, sending hugs ((())) and prayers your way.
