Exactly Abby. That is what I was suggesting. Dim. Dim is not to get him to change his actions or way of speaking, it is for you. You still need to co-parent. Co-parenting is not emergencies only. It's interaction on every level required to make sure your S14 is supported. Going completely dark is nearly impossible and unrealistic when children are involved.


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!