just to clarify --- (i can hear 25 reading this last message...) I did not 'push' W to think about it -- this was a quote from her. She said, " I am ambivalent about you, but if I'm pushed to think about it, I have to say I just don't like you or want to be your friend."

Didn't want a 2 X 4 -- I actually did a pretty decent job of validating and listening for once!!

She reminded me this am i need a new phone b/c mine is dead and I need off her 'family plan'. Guess I really have to get a new phone now. I dread christmas.....


Me (f): 45
W(f) 35
T: 13 y
C: S4 adopted at birth
6-18-11 bomb: I want to break up
8-28-11 OW confirmed