Originally Posted By: NYCPeter
My W read these books (on the recommendation of her therapist) as a way of finding a way of letting me go.

I'm not saying that co-dependency is a good thing, but I do believe as a natural part of M there is a certain amount of co-dependency.


There is a huge difference between co-dependancy and the kind of heathy intertwined relations of a marriage.

Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc