You are so right with the "spousal" things. He has said he doesn't want me performing any wifely duties (cooking, laundry) because he can't be a husband to me right now. However when he is in the mood- then it's ok if I perform wifely duties?! Do they not see the irony in that? UGH!
And THAT ^^^ is all about him. I'm not telling you to do stuff to push his buttons on purpose, but psalm, your life has got to become about YOU. Not just tiptoeing around him hoping and praying that HE sees the light and all is well again.
Then what will you have?
Live your life psalm, the way you want and need to in order to be true to you. Find out who you are outside of your role as wife and mother ...
Peace PEI
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
