Quick note: W replied to response to her text with "Thank You :)" . Small, but pleasant. I am finding that things can stay positive if we focus on what/how the baby is doing. - we both miss him a lot when he is gone. "Experiment and do what works". I will NOT flood her with texts at all....in fact I won't initiate. But I will reply to hers....after a an hour or so and be upbeat and pleasant about the baby. Seems to get a good response. After being "dark" since friday she texted me at 10:30 last night. Maybe that's a small positive. I don't know.
