Since this seems to have turned into a place for oldtimers to check in.....Some days I can't believe I spent 6 years here (on and off) trying to save my marriage. If only I had spent those years saving ME. I finally did that in the last 6 months or so. The divorce will be legal very soon, and I have never been more content in my skin. I intend to start a new thread with the intention of letting newbies know it really does get better regardless of the outcome. But for now, I gotta go live my life!
