DBing against OW...?????

[mishka422]

Very, very, very well done ITM. So glad that the C finally tapped on something that could be useful going forward. It has seemed to me like she is just there to moderate your H's b!tch sessions.

Stay on the track you have been on with one exception. Allow your H to communicate with you, respond, but the second he says one thing that is hurtful shut the convo down. Don't just stop talking though, point out how what he said made you feel and then stop the convo. Each time you do that you show him your boundary. Do that enough and you have re-patterned your communication styles.

Good luck. I think this is a good first step, if not to the road back to each other, at least on the road to better co-parenting.