Doing the "Friends" Route Pt 2...

[Abbey]

Journaling...

I met daughter last night. It was fun... went round and saw Christmas lights.

It's good to have family support from H's side. They gave us tickets for a sports game which we both like. We had a nice time. (H's bro even smiled when he gave me tickets, knowing full well that he was "pushing" us together... said,... enjoy the evening.)

H was cuddly, and was happy (I gather) with how daughter and I interacted. When we got home, H said a number of times, this was a good evening.

Not so good: OW phoned 7 times while she was stuck in traffic. He tells her he loves her. Well... actually SHE tells him that she loves him and he responds. Me, I wait for him to tell me his feelings... not chase.

He lies to her. I mean a lot. Told her that it was his brother who went with him. She essentially believes that we are nothing more than civil room mates. That basically we don't interact at all.

After spending almost 2 hours with daughter, and on the way to sporting event together, he says: OW can bring daughter over to house... and you could go to your office.

I looked at him and said, Well that's highly inappropriate. H: Why. Me: Aw... cuz it's MY house and as long as I'm there, I'm not going to "hide" in my own f'g house. Sorry. H: But you said you'd "disappear" if I had to bring daughter to house. Me: Only because she was sick. You needn't think that I'm going to chase me out of the comfort of my OWN home. H: oh. Me: NOR will I jump through hoops for OW to feel MORE comfortable in MY home than I am. Not happening. H: Oh, ok.

WTF?

Next thing, he takes my hand and holds it. Was flirty. Is there like a big gooey zone in their brain?

On a completely diff note, I found out that a couple I would have NEVER pegged as splitting, split. H went alien. Considering how supportive he was with my split - I'm shocked. I would have never thought he'd have a PA. Never.

Abbey