Going dark can be a last resort, but if you go into it looking for her to respond to your lack of contact with her folks..........and if she doesn't have any reaction at all......then what? How will you handle that?
Well, at worst it's like you say and my W doesn't contact me. I'll handle it the same way I'm handling it now. Living one day at a time, improving my self through diet & exercise, hanging out with friends and making new ones.
I guess sooner or later (perhaps months later) she will either contact me or let me contact her. Or if not, then I'll eventually move on completely and start dating again at which point I'll probably wind up filing.
But once again, I don't feel like I am in any particular rush to break my vows even if my W has broken hers.
Me: 27 Ex W: 26 Together:3 M:2010-11-20 Ex W walked: 2011-10-13 D: 2013-03-03
