I think you are right about the bed, 25. She did, however, ask for the help even though it was most likely humbling. I did it with no true expectations at all. My heart just went out to her when I learned she was sleeping on the floor. As a human being I think it was the right thing to do. As someone looking to DB, I question it still.
I am eating once again, 25! And I am miles away from blacking out again. . DR and these boards have really helped out.
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