I'm hoping that if my W realizes that I stopped pursuing her she may think: "Uh oh, why has he stopped trying to get in touch with me? What's going on..." which may spur her to try and communicate with me...
I think it might have some affect, but I'm more concerned about how it will affect you. Going dark can be a last resort, but if you go into it looking for her to respond to your lack of contact with her folks..........and if she doesn't have any reaction at all......then what? How will you handle that?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
